The MMW Guide: Wedding Guest Etiquette (And Mistakes to Avoid)

The Absolute Not’s of Attending a Wedding

There’s one at every wedding. Okay – there’s like 12 at every wedding. You know, the peculiar extended family member or a drunk groomsmen or an emotional aunt who makes a little faux pas mid-ceremony or after the first speech. As a millennial (with a lot of newlywed friends) we’ve seen a handful of grind sesh’s on the dance floor, heard quite a few rants of drunken gibberish that almost passed for speeches and witnessed a couple confused grandma’s obliviously recording the bride walking down the aisle (with a blinding flash lighting the way.) When you get a group of 150+ together, there’s bound to be a little chaos, a lot of laughs and a ton of fun – but keep in mind, a lot of time and money went into creating these special moments, you’d hate for anything to ruin them. These are a few blunders that every wedding guest should mindfully try to avoid:

WEARING WHITE

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“YOU LITTLE BETCH.”

That’s what comes to my mind every time we walk into the church and some random guest’s date is wearing a white dress. ARE YOU DENSE?! C’mon y’all. Work with the bride here. Even if you’re attending the wedding of the most chill gal in the world, even if the dress code is deemed “casual,” even if you SLAY the heck out of a white dress – JUST DON’T DO IT. Don’t try to justify it as “ivory,” or think that because a slight pastel pattern covers 1/4th of the gown that it’s okay. Everyone is thinking the same thing when a guest shows up wearing white and it’s not “ooh that really compliments her tan!”

DECIDING MID-CEREMONY THAT YOU’RE ACTUALLY A PHOTOGRAPHER

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Yes – we all want that perfect picture of the groom’s reaction as his bride walks down the aisle, but please: (I speak for all photographer’s when I say this) leave capturing the moment to the professionals. I won’t elaborate any more, just check out this awkward scene.

REQUESTING TO BRING A GUEST

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Chances are – you’re either attending the wedding of a close friend (with fellow close friends/family) or if you really are on your own, the couple may grant you a +1. If you didn’t receive a +1, please don’t make it awk. Let me remind y’all that weddings cost $$$ & frankly, people don’t want to pay $21 for a stranger to enjoy a dinner on their dime. Only bring a guest if it was stated on the invitation.

BRINGING AN UN-RSVP’D KID

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It’s the bride & groom’s responsibility to decide if they want children to attend their wedding, but the guests’ responsibility is to account for their kids on the invitation or abide by the No Nose Pickers rule. Some people simply don’t want a flailing child screaming through their vows (& that’s okay!)

(Even if your little beb is as cute as that little beb)

KEEPING THE DRINKS (& DUETS) TO A MINIMUM

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When the lights go down and the tunes come on, it’s time to PARTY. But, remember that you’re at a wedding – not a Phi Gamma Delta toga party. Keep the focus on celebrating the bride & groom.

*Also, even if you’ve had like 4 glasses of Rosè and the bride’s brother in law (I’M LOOKIN AT YOU, BRANDON) says “hey you know what we should do a duet to City High’s What Would You Do!” You might think you slayed it, but your fiancè will record it on his phone & embarrass you 24/7. Instead, just politely decline and say “no thank you, but fabulous song choice.”

CHIT CHATTING DURING THE TOASTS

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I live for the toasts.

Honestly, how many opportunities do you get to hear the people who mean the most to you spill their heart out to a huge group of people? It’s nerve wracking, it’s a lot of pressure, and it shouldn’t be interrupted by anything.

FORGETTING TO RSVP

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Listen y’all – in this day & age, there is absolutely NO excuse to forget to RSVP! Usually, the couple will send an RSVP card with your invitation. This is literally the card, envelope and postage ready to be sent back – only needing a little check mark and your name! They make it pretty easy for guests. These days, some couples forgo the paper route and have guests RSVP online/via email – even easier! If you can’t make that happen, call/text/snapchat a thumbs up to the soon-to-be bride & groom.

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KEEP SAID ETIQUETTE IN MIND & ENJOY BEING A PART OF THE BIG DAY! WHAT’S THE WORST GUEST MOMENT/FAUX PAS YOU’VE EVER WITNESSED? COMMENT BELOW!

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5 Fabulous Bachelorette Bash Ideas

Sure, the proposal, engagement ring selfies, and saying yes to the dress are all fun – but every bride and her ‘maids look forward to the

BACHELORETTE PARTY

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It’s one of the few chances you have to kick up (or off) your heels, let your hair down and partay with your bride tribe! Dancing, drinking & laughing with your besties are mandatory activities. Whether you’re risking it all in Vegas, jamming all weekend long in Nashville or having a barre class bash, here are the cutest Bachelorette party themes of Summer 2017:

*THIS POST IS SFW & CONTAINS NO WEINER DECOR, CAKE MOLDS OR SOUVENIRS*

A TROPICAL TWIST

I’m obsessed with pineapples (who isn’t!?) This is such an easy, fabulous theme for any summer bachelorette party!

FAVOR: PINEAPPLE BOTTLE OPENERS

DRINK: FIZZY PINEAPPLE PUNCH

GAME: BOWLING FOR PINEAPPLES

 

THE FINAL FLAMINGLE

Can it get any more girly? The perfect theme for a mid-July pool party with your flock!

FAVOR: Flocked Up Koozie

DRINK: The Pink Flamingo

GAME: Flamingo Ring Toss

 

THE BRIDE’S LAST SPLASH

This theme is so glam. Sequins, luminous colors and so many festive, nautical party favors. Toast to your (mer)maids – you’re trading in the tail for the veil!

FAVOR: Mermaid Cover Up

DRINK: Mermaid Lemonade 

GAME: Floating Pool Pong

 

THE FINAL FIESTA

Margaritas. Build your own burrito bar. Monogrammed sombreros. Need I go on?

FAVOR: Fiesta Hair Ties

DRINK: Skinny Champagne Margarita

GAME: Booze Filled Piñata

BACHELLA

YAAAAAS GIRL.

We’re talking flower crowns, tons of jams, mimosa bars, a temporary tattoo station & a food truck! All the fun of the festival (without the passed out hipsters.)

FAVOR: Temporary Tatts

DRINK: Blackberry Lavender Champagne

GAME: Music Trivia Printables

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WHATEV THEME YOU CHOOSE: THANK YOUR GALS, GIVE A TOAST & ENJOY THE LAST HOORAH WITH YOUR “I DO” CREW

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The MMW Guide: Preserving Your Wedding Day Details

After the tap runs dry, the DJ plays “closing time” & the day-of coordinator kicks you out – how will you preserve the biggest day of your life?

Aside from saved Snapchat stories and framed photos of the first dance, how will you keep the most special details alive? You’ve heard of cake preservation *dry heaves* and boxing up the dress, but it’s 2017 – there are better (& much cuter) ways! Read on to see how you can save the biggest moments from the best day:

The Cake
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“Dry.”

“Just kind of weird, you know?”

“Definitely not as good the second time.”

These are the responses I received when I asked my followers on Facebook to to describe their experiences with freezing the top tier of their wedding cake. Traditionally, newlyweds will freeze the top tier to eat on their first anniversary. The problem? Uh – it’s gross one year later! Send Paper Cakes by Mikey a photo of your cake and they’ll recreate it in pretty little ornament form! Hang it from your tree or display it all year round. It’s a sweet little sentiment that you can enjoy (without fake smiling in between spoonfuls!)

The Dress

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No offense – but let me put this bluntly: 9/10 instances, your future daughter doesn’t want to wear your gown. She’ll want to pick her own! You don’t need to box it up and keep it for 25 years in hopes that she decides she loves that 2017 mermaid trend. While some brides opt for a “trash the dress” photoshoot, or framing their gown (á la Adrienne Maloof of Real Housewives of Beverly Hills – who famously framed her gown that hangs next to her walk in closet) my favorite idea is taking a piece of your gown and having it set in a pendant. You can literally wear your wedding dress all year round! Shop memory jewelry here.

The Bouquet

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There’s a ton of things you can do with your bouquet – from pressing the petals to making them an ornament, jewelry or even a candle, the possibilities are endless. My favorite is a super chic keepsake, the petal tray. You can use this gem for serving tea, as a catchall or a ring tray. I love that you can design it how you want – check out the super simple DIY here!

The Cards

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You’ll obviously use the gifts you receive forever (so make sure to create a fabulous registry) but what holds the true sentiment aren’t the gifts, but the cards. I know, I know – so cheesy. Nobody knows my love of cards (passed down from my mom) more than my fiancé – who is forced to spend every holiday picking out the most perfect greeting card, usually featuring a bulldog. Cards are handpicked by your loved ones, a sweet message accompanied by their own handwritten greeting and signature…SWOON. Save the cards in a form you can easily revisit – a mini album.

The Cork

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Obsessed with this home decor idea. You can always purchase another bottle of that special wedding night spirit, but unless you keep the original bottle, the charm sort of wears off. Display the cork with your framed wedding photos or even on your nightstand, wherever it sits, may it remind you to enjoy every toast as if it were your first.

What are your favorite ways to preserve big day details? Comment below!

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Just Say No: Wedding Trends That Gotta Go

Hey Y’all! This is my first post since I joined you fellow brides-to-be & *wedding planners of America*

Following the engagement, I was surprised at the amount of people who asked for the date & location (hours after I said yes) – many people assume that because I blog weddings that I’ve got mine all figured out. NOPE! It’s so different when you’re planning your own wedding. You only get one shot (unless Gehrig realizes just how many homeless dogs I plan on bringing home..then he might jump ship – but) you want every detail to be perfect. The only details that have been set in stone so far are

1. I will be wearing a Hayley Paige gown

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2. Our boys (the dogs) will be wearing navy tuxedos to match their dad

The major deets are still TBA, but as I continue researching the cutest wedding ideas, themes and decor, I can’t help but make mental notes of what I don’t want! Here are some trends that I’m so over:

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transparent corset gowns

{à la Pnina Tornai}

*insert retching sounds*

If y’all have ever watched an episode of Say Yes to the Dress, you’ll know that Pnina Tornai is a coveted designer who creates intricate couture gowns. Brides are always fawning over see-through bodices and seeking out her sexy details. Personally, I’ve never understood the want to feel overly ~sexy~ on your wedding day – I mean you’re celebrating your commitment to one person in front of your family and friends! BTW – after digging into that delicious buffet, who wants their stomach on full display? Yes to feeling beautiful, but no to oddly placed cut-outs, plunging v-necks and transparent corset gowns.

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My question is: who overlooked this design & allowed it to be photographed? Geodes have been in for like two years now, the gorgeous jewel tones & good vibes that accompany these pretty little rock formations have made them a big influence on 2016 wedding decor – however, the cake design? Eeeek. I’m not getting a tranquil, earthy vibe, I’m getting a gynecologist appointment vibe.

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sequin bridesmaids dresses

Didn’t we agree to leave sequins back in 2015? Sequin bridesmaids dresses were a huge hit as metallic palettes had their moment, but please – no more disco ball bridesmaids. If you want your gals to stand out, use patterns or mismatched dresses instead!

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DIY candy bars

“After six mixed drinks & four hours of dancing, I love grabbing a nice cellophane bag full of Peach Rings to satisfy my hunger!”

– Said no one ever.

Listen friends – your guests don’t want a customized paper brown bag filled with Jordan almonds and lemon heads. Skip the overdone candy bar trend and treat your guests to an assortment of mini desserts! Red velvet cupcakes > rock candy – I promise.

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brooch bouquets

I am so annoyed at whoever told thousands of brides that a pile of mismatched, vintage BROOCHES was a better choice than a bouquet of fresh flowers. First off, how dare you. Second off, how heavy does that look!? Third – c’mon. Tacky + gaudy don’t even begin to cover it.

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massive bridal parties

Omg enough with the 28 bridesmaids + groomsmen! Bridal parties should be your closest friends and family – not your twelve sorority sisters, your great grand little, your fiance’s brother’s girlfriend, your friend from summer camp, and your new neighbor. This is a special position reserved for those you hold near and dear to your heart. Am I just jealous that I only have 2.5 friends? Maybe. But everyone invited to your wedding should feel honored that they were picked to share this moment with you – you don’t need an excessive amount of ‘maids.

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weird choreographed swing dance numbers

You know what’s awesome? Intimate, slow & smiley first dances. Also adored? Hilarious attempts at line dancing with your sweaty family members and kids. Weird and awkward for everyone to watch? Those overly choreographed random dance numbers that some brides and grooms decide to throw in to *impress* their guests. I’ve seen a few dance routines that ended in fumbling feet, missteps and angry whispering in one another’s ears while two very obvious untalented dancers try to blow their guests away. The only result is a lot of cringing and sympathy applause.

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koozie favors

Maybe it’s just because my fiancé & I aren’t big drinkers, but i’m not into these. A koozie favor has a 5% chance of living longer than 3 months before it meets it’s ultimate demise {in the dumpster} Go for something edible, unique or skip it all together.

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To each their own – what’s your least fav current wedding trend? Comment below!

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Budget Woes: Who Pays For What?

All aboard the Awkward express!

Following the rush of excitement that comes along with the engagement and initial planning, that slightly unpleasant conversation is lurking in the shadows, waiting to jump out at you & your future Mother-In-Law at brunch {over a few too many mimosas!} It’s not the most fun topic of conversation, but figuring out who is contributing to your wedding (and how much) is vital to planning your wedding budget. Use this MMW guide and turn the ol’ tricky task into just another easy assignment:

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THE BRIDE PAYS FOR:

  • The groom’s wedding ring
  • The groom’s wedding gift
  • Bridesmaids’ gifts
  • Personal stationery

THE GROOM PAYS FOR:

  • The bride’s engagement & wedding ring
  • The bride’s wedding gift
  • The groomsmen’s gifts
  • The marriage license
  • Clergy/judge fee
  • The boutonnieres
  • Transportation
  • The bride’s bouquet

THE BRIDE’S FAMILY PAYS FOR:

  • The invitations
  • Services of the bridal consult
  • Wedding gift for the newlyweds
  • The bride’s gown & accessories
  • The church/reception music
  • Flowers for the church/venue
  • Bridesmaids’ bouquets
  • Transportation for the bridal party
  • The reception fee
  • Catering
  • The wedding cake
  • Gratuities
  • Photography
  • Videography
  • Their own attire
  • Their own lodging

THE GROOM’S FAMILY PAYS FOR:

  • Their own attire
  • Their own loding
  • The rehearsal dinner/luncheon
  • A wedding gift for the newlyweds

THE BRIDESMAIDS PAY FOR:

  • Their dresses + accessories
  • Transportation to and from the city (where the wedding is being held)
  • The bride’s gift
  • Bridal shower or luncheon
  • Bachelorette party

THE GROOMSMEN PAY FOR:

  • Their suits/tuxedos + accessories
  • Transportation to and from the city (where the wedding is being held)
  • The groom’s gift
  • Bachelor party

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THERE ARE SOME THINGS TO CONSIDER BEFORE ASSUMING THE SELECTED PARTIES WILL PAY FOR SAID ITEMS – ARE THEY FINANCIALLY STABLE {CURRENTLY EMPLOYED/NOT IN DEBT} + WILLING? CONSIDER WHAT YOU AND YOUR BEAU-TO-BE CAN PAY FOR YOURSELVES, THEN DISCUSS THE DETAILS WITH YOUR WEDDING PARTY. AT THE END OF THE DAY, A HAPPY FAMILY IS WORTH MORE THAN EXPENSIVE CENTERPIECES. NEVER LET EXPENSES COME BETWEEN LOVED ONES! FACTOR IN YOUR OWN UNIQUE WEDDING EXPENSES AS YOU GO.

HAPPY PLANNING
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Choosing the Perfect Venue: Quick & Easy Questions

Before you say yes to the dress or set a date, you’ll want to book your venue! Find the perfect setting for your big day and then make sure to ask the coordinators these essential venue questions:

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“How many guests can this sucker hold?”

Venue capacity should be one of your first questions. This will lay the ground rules for making your guest list! Are you thinking of inviting 200? Always add 10-15 spots on top of your original number ( ya know, for your mom’s coworker and the groom’s high school baseball coach, etc.) Ask if the venue’s guest capacity will change once all the tables are set up. It’s a great idea to ask for a portfolio of photos and layout options so you can envision your wedding and ensure the space meets your needs.

“When is the deposit due & what is your cancellation policy?”

*cue the groom’s heart attack*

Figure out when the deposit is due, then the full balance.  Also, breaking news: life is unpredictable. If for any reason (god forbid) you had to cancel – you’ll want to know if the deposit is refundable or the latest date that you could cancel and get your money back.

“His friends like to drink. A lot. And do parkour.”

You can be blunt and say this or simply ask if the venue’s staff has health and safety training. You’d be surprised how many receptions T.A.M. (techniques of alcohol management) has saved. It’s also a good idea to inquire about CPR services and first aid.

“What is your bar policy?”

This is when you’ll learn about the venue’s options for an open bar/cash bar/etc. Consider your preferences, get a menu and decide if they have everything you’re looking for (including frozen drinks, the wine selection, beer of choice and non-alcoholic beverages!)

“Aside from the event room, what other spaces will we have access to?”

This includes the bridal suite and places to take photographs. You also want to determine if there are enough bathrooms and parking spaces for your guests.

“Let’s see that menu!”

Do you want to design your custom menu or lay out a buffet of options? Discuss the dinner possibilities and selections/variety. They should be flexible and eager to work with you to plan the perfect dinner plan. A build your own mac + cheese bar, sautéed asparagus and filet? Add Meg to your guest list, thanks.

“Do you provide any special amenities?”

Secondary food services, complimentary coffee and mints seem like the most minuscule of details, but the little stuff is what sets apart the wedding venue from your list of other options.

“Do you offer on-site coordination services?”

Find out who will be in charge at the venue, if they will be available to handle guest needs and properly host the event. The answer to this question is super important! Rachel at The Watson House may offer to stay behind the scenes and assist with minor issues, while Brittney at Newport Country Club is willing to help with everything from parking services to helping the bride pee. Decide what you’re looking for and then get the deets.

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Tour a variety of venues, take photos & most importantly: ask questions! Setting the scene for your big day is a super fun way to kick off the planning. Enjoy every second of it!

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The MMW Guide to Garters

You (awkwardly) wore one to prom and you’ll pick one out for your big day – but what’s the deal with those little frilly thigh accessories?

ORIGIN

The little piece of lace dates back hundreds of years ago to those good ‘ol ancient superstitions (and pretty much any bride’s worst nightmare.) It was believed that owning a piece of the wedding gown was lucky and would bring wealth. This would incentivize guests to tackle the bride and rip off a piece of the dress! Brides wised up and began carrying a piece of their gowns to gift a lucky guest instead of waiting to be attacked at the reception. This turned into the delicate little accessory we see today.

Now, the groom is the only one who should remove the garter from the bride. When she tosses the bouquet, he throws the garter and the enthused recipients will be the next to marry (not necessarily each other, but hey…ya never know!)

HOW TO STYLE

The original reason for wearing a garter was to hold up stockings. Garters are usually sold in sets so that a bride can wear one on each leg and choose to keep one and allow the groom to throw one. There’s no set rule as to which leg gets to rock the garter, but brides usually choose to wear it on their dominate side. Place your garter just above the knee, not too high (avoid my naive prom-going self from 2010, I hiked it up to my hip not knowing what it was for then gawked at my friends taking photos with theirs since I had no idea what it was for..eek.)

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Picking your Garter

Garters have become waaay more elegant over the past couple decades. Many designers make custom garters depending on what the bride wants. Do you want it to match your gown, show off your personality or be your “something blue?” While satin was once a popular design, lace, tulle and silver gemstones have taken over as the popular garter fabrics.

Keep in mind that you’ll be wearing this throughout your wedding day – for photos and the traditional take-off, so pick whatever you’ll feel most comfortable in!

MY FAVS

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SIMPLE LACE – RAGGED DIAMOND $23.99

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DELICATE DECOR – MELINDA ROSE $85

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MONOGRAMMED DETAIL – SOUTHERN EVER AFTER $25

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ENCRUSTED ELEGANCE – GARTER QUEEN $60

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LIGHTLY LAYERED – DAVIE AND CHIYO $22

THE TOSS

Okay y’all – as an adolescent wedding guest (and even now) I cringe at the weird, mildly drunk “sexy dance” that grooms often engage in while taking off the garter. Imagine your new husband sulking underneath your gown in front of your family, friends and grandparents while Wild Thang plays in the background!?

*dry heaves*

 You can forgo the whole “removing” part and just hand your groom the garter to fling to a lucky groomsmen. After you toss the bouquet, award the winning recipients with their own custom bottles of wine or beer – SO much better than a pre-owned sweaty piece of lace. My absolute favorite garter toss idea?

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Yeah I’m kind of biased, but send the garter off with a NFL football! A fun activity, a more accurate toss and a cool souvenir.

AS WITH ANY WEDDING FACET, CHOOSING YOUR GARTER IS AN OPPORTUNITY TO INFUSE YOUR PERSONALITY & STYLE INTO A FUN ACCESSORY! AWKWARD OR AWESOME, ENJOY YOUR GARTER TOSS AS ONE OF THE LIGHTER MOMENTS OF THE DAY.

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Honoring Your Late Loved Ones

“The ones we love don’t go away, they walk behind us every day. Unseen, unheard but always near, still loved, still missed & very dear.”

Many brides can attest to the painful realization that at least one of their loved ones will not be able to attend the wedding. On your big day, you can focus on the happiness surrounding you and your husband-to-be and honor your late loved ones – who will without a doubt help celebrate in spirit. Read on to find sentimental inspiration for honoring your angels:

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Dress Details

Have your alterations specialist stitch a piece of your loved one’s clothing on the inside of your gown. This will ensure that you have them with you every step down the aisle. Bonus: your “something borrowed” is extra special.

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Reserved & Remembered

Seat a framed photo of your loved one with a bouquet of their favorite flowers front and center at your ceremony – their presence will be felt and honored respectively.

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In Memory & Celebration

Similar to the framed photo, you can reserve a front row seat with a sign and a special object that meant a lot to the person.

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A Sentimental Accessory

The groom can pay homage to a late loved one by framing their photo and attaching it to his boutonniere. What could be more special than having them close to his heart?

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Charming Memories

The bride can also bring her late loved ones to the ceremony by securing her bouquet with black and white framed photo charms. Many brides have used this idea to walk with their dads down the aisle.

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A Balloon Release

Following the ceremony, after the reception or during a scheduled moment of your wedding day, release balloons (or butterflies) as a special expression of love and gratitude towards your guests in heaven.

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A Sweet Shrine

Dedicate a special area or table to your loved ones by placing framed photos, flowers and candles. If your late loved ones played a large role in your life, your immediate family will definitely appreciate the gesture and enjoy taking a moment to remember their family or friends.

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A Lantern Lighting

A burning candle or lantern can be lit in memory of your loved one – it’s an endearing symbol of their presence and love living on and attending your big day.

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Dedicated Donations

I’ve said it a hundred times and I’ll say it again – many guests would appreciate a donation to the charity of your choice over a refrigerator magnet or another customized koozie. You can donate the money you would’ve used for favors to a charity that represents your loved ones or helped them through a difficult time.

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A Commemorative Toast

My favorite! Some couples have asked that guests take a shot, share a cigar or enjoy a special dessert in honor of their late loved ones. This is a such a sweet way to highlight an element of your loved one’s personality and their favorite things. It also allows all your guests to participate, even if they didn’t know your loved one, they can still take part in a respective moment of remembrance.

Forever with you, always in your heart. Honor them by celebrating their life and your love.

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{Photography: Sawyer Baird Photography}

Pantone’s 2017 Color of the Year

A new year = a fresh take on color schemes for your wedding! Marsala & accented pink tones are a thing of the past – this year, it’s all about

GREENERY

& COOL JEWEL HUES

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You can check out Pantone’s entire collection {featuring Greenery} here, but of the 10 palettes, I’m forecasting “Fathomless” colors to make their debut in weddings across the nation this Spring. These versatile shades go perfectly with metallic accents or black and white staple colors. Considering “Fathomless” for your color scheme? Check out this array of natural-colored inspiration!

PERFECT FOR A MOUNTAINSIDE WEDDING OR SPRING NUPTIALS – ADD SOME NATURAL BRIGHTS TO YOUR BIG DAY!

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Reception Style: Dessert Display Inspo

After the I Do’s, the first dance and the speeches, everyone’s looking forward to the sweet treat waiting for them at the end of the night! Go beyond the slice of cake – check out these dessert displays!

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A S’MORES STAND

This is essential for a backyard/lakeside reception – especially a venue with a gorgeous fire pit. Allow your guests to enjoy their favorite outdoor dessert!

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How fun and whimsical is this? Stock up on the bride & groom’s favorite ice cream flavors for cocktail hour or following a garden-party buffet!

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THE CANDY BAR

A classic candy bar lets your guests fill up on their favorite sweets and doubles as the perfect favor to send them home with. Add customized mason jars or monogrammed canvas pouches for added charm.

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A MILK & COOKIES STAND

Conclude your reception with an all American classic – the chocolate chip cookie! With glasses of milk (strawberry, chocolate & 2%) to pair, this is one fresh & flavorful option.

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A pie bar is the perfect complement to a mid-summer wedding or a rustic-chic barn bash. Give your guests an array of goodness by displaying them on vintage pie stands! You can ask your groom-to-be, your bridal party and your parents for pie flavor suggestions.

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A DONUT WALL

One of my favorite early 2017 trends – a wall of glorious donuts. When you’re out on the dance floor, the last thing you want to do is try to juggle a piece of cake and a plastic fork. Your guest will love being able to pick their flavors right off the display and keep the party going!

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DIY ICE CREAM SANDWICH STATION

Cookies + (Ice) Cream = 

If you prefer your guests stay seated during dinner & dessert, consider passing out individual ice cream sandwich stations! Provide cookies, toppings and pre-cut ice cream slices so guests can get creative with their sweets.

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A COFFEE BAR

Are you and your significant other a pair of latte lovin’ baristas? A super cute way to top off your reception dinner is with a decorated coffee bar! K-cups, creamer and sweeteners can be stocked – along with custom favor mugs or to-go cups.

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CUPCAKE TIERS

Everyone loves cupcakes – you can’t go wrong with these delectable minis. You can ask your bakery to include a variety of popular flavors so everyone’s sweet tooth is satisfied. The display possibilities are virtually endless so it’s a perfect dessert option for any theme or venue!

cakepopcastleA CAKE POP COLLECTION

Another super functional way to pass out sugar! Aside from cake pops being being so frickin’ cute, they are fabulous because they’re so easy to eat and guests won’t need extra plates/utensils/napkins to enjoy them. Less waste + less clean up + more money to put towards other things (like shoes) = one happy bride.

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DESSERT IS A MAJOR HIGHLIGHT OF THE RECEPTION – SERVE IT UP IN STYLE &

TREAT YO SELF.

{Photo by: Christine Farah Photography}